Oh heavens! I know that losing someone you love is not something you "get over" (though some people seem to think you can...). 20 years after my dad died I still choke up if I hear a piece of music that he particularly loved. We have to honour those feelings as part of our love for those we've lost, like you feeling bad when you pass the place you associate with your great grama.
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