thanks - you're lovely to say that. But really, I don't want this to be about me (though I guess it is in a way). It's about worrying and feeling helpless and like I'm doing and saying all the wrong things, but wanting the person I'm worrying about to know that I'm there. Not in an "I'm worried about you, so you're obligated to let me know how you're doing" way, just ... knowing.
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