intertext: (gargoyle)
Sunday, March 30th, 2008 03:55 pm
This morning, while I was walking on the Westsong promenade with Robinson, I passed, and greeted as I passed, my old High School art teacher and his wife. Seeing them, as I quite often do, running into them on that walk and at Thrifty's and elsewhere, made me think about how you often seem to keep encountering certain people over a lifetime, and to wonder whether there's some cosmic "connection" that makes that happen. What possible connection I could have with my High School art teacher is hard to fathom, unless perhaps we had a relationship in a previous life.

He was not one of my favourite teachers at school, being one of those small men in a position of power who become bullies. He was not a particularly good teacher, but he was an ambitious one, equipping our school with the makings of a near professional silk screen operation. He was also an expert calligrapher, and so that was one of the units of study in a year with him. He made up for lack of inspiration with extreme strictness, being known to throw someone out of his classroom for fairly minor disciplinary infractions. My guess now is that he was not very confident of his ability to control the large sporty types who took art as an easy elective, so exerted a fierce control at the slightest provocation. I disliked him. My father, in one of those expertly calculated appropriately inappropriate gestures he was so good at, hired him to inscribe a bookplate for a book my parents gave me as a graduation present. Think about that, and the little snigger my father gave as I saw the initials on the bookplate, and you'll learn something about my father (and understand perhaps why I disliked him, too).

You might think that would be enough for a lifetime, but strangely, we connected in other ways later in life. After I came back from China, I worked for a time for the University of Victoria's English as a Foreign language program. My boss? Turned out to be his wife. He turned up at a program party. And SHE was a piece of work, too (maybe another time I'll tell you about that episode of my life).

After I left there and got my job with my current college, I met him again, in another venue. Before I developed hip problems, I was quite a keen, if inexpert, figure skater. Guess whom I met at the morning "Adults Only" figure skating session? Him again. We even took a few turns around the ice together and chatted about old times.

Then my arthritis got too bad and I stopped going, but I kept running into him and his wife - the reason? They live in my neighbourhood, about three blocks away.

I hope nodding politely and exchanging greetings will fulfill whatever obligation I owe to him from a past life.
intertext: (fillyjonk)
Friday, February 29th, 2008 08:38 am
My mum always wanted her supper on the dot of 6:00 pm and also liked us to sit together beforehand with a little drink and the pre-taped Coronation St episode, all of which meant that I usually had to start preparing supper at around 4:30 in order to have it either cooking or ready to go by 5:00 so that it could be on the table at 6:00. One of the luxuries I enjoy since she died is that of eating later, or whenever, or not at all, getting more things done in the late afternoon, so that when I stop I can unwind completely, drink wine, watch a dvd.

A new ritual is taking the dogs, now dog, out for a walk when I get home from work. This is nice for both of us. I do this pretty much rain or shine, and in the dark in the deep of winter. Robinson has a little light I can put on his collar which helps him to show up as we walk on the street, and lets me see him if we go somewhere I can let him off leash.

Yesterday, as we walked through the neighbourhood at about 5:30 I was struck by how light it still was. We walked to Summit Park, where the old reservoir is, and there were sheets of crocuses blooming, glimmering softly in the last rays of the sun (as an aside, I'm amazed that the "friends of Garry Oak" society have allowed them to continue blooming there, them being an Introduced Species and all...). Alien or not, they are beautiful. We walked down the hill towards Topaz Park, which is a bigger park near where my house is, and passed a child playing in her garden, two other dog walkers, someone mowing his lawn. As we walked, I could smell people's suppers cooking. I love that: mmm curry; oh, someone's having steak; hmmm, smells like garlic and ginger - must be Asian food, yum.

And then it was home, and food for Robinson, and wine and supper for me.
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intertext: (clouds)
Wednesday, February 20th, 2008 09:35 pm
Twenty-two or so years ago in China, there was another total eclipse of the moon.

I don't remember exactly what time of year it was - I do remember that it was in the time between September 1985 and April 1986, because I remember the Texans upstairs, and they were there in my second year in Tianjin.
It was either Fall or Spring - not midwinter, for reasons that will become clear in a moment.

I had gone to bed, but had been restless and unable to sleep. Gradually, I became aware of a growing sound, the mutter of a crowd of people. It grew. The sound swelled, so that I had the impression of large numbers, doing something in unison. To be honest (this was China, after all) I was a little afraid; who knew that it might not be some kind of uprising, or a return of the Red Guards?

I got out of bed and went to the window, but my room was only on the second floor, not high enough to be able to get a good view. At the open window, the sound of voices was even louder and was getting louder still all the time. I discovered that I was not the only person disturbed by the noise. My Texan colleagues, two floors up, were out on their balcony and could see what was going on. A few streets over, there was a football field, between the campuses of Tianjin University, where we were, and Nankai University next door. The Texans could see that the football field was full of people, and they were all looking up into the sky. We looked up, and saw that the moon was half swallowed by shadow.

Whether all the people were participating in some kind of ritual in praise of the moon, or chanting to bring it back, or whether it was simply a well-publicized gathering to share binoculars or telescopes or something... we never learned, and I'll never know. But that crowd of people lent enormous weight and ritual to what is, after all, rather a miraculous event - the disappearance and reappearance of our moon.
intertext: (xmas beardie)
Tuesday, December 25th, 2007 09:20 am
For all the curious cultural disconnects that arose when living in Tianjin - for example, having Chinese as a kind of lingua franca between visiting scholars, students, or tourists from Japan, Russia, Algeria and elsewhere - I really didn't expect to hear midnight mass. Sung. In Latin. Read more... )
intertext: (deerskin)
Sunday, December 9th, 2007 10:00 am
In which I am forced to discover what books I absolutely cannot live without for two years, and what books I will read when desperate. Read more... )